Family Relationship
There are many difficult matters in family relationship. One of them is that you don't control the ___31___ relationship yourself。
When major family relationship problems occur, it's____32 __ to attempt a control strateg

Family Relationship
There are many difficult matters in family relationship. One of them is that you don't control the ___31___ relationship yourself。
When major family relationship problems occur, it's____32 __ to attempt a control strategy. You try to get the other person to change. Sometimes this approach works,___33___ if your request and the other person's are both reasonable. But many times it doesn't.
On the other hand, if you can't change other people, maybe you should___34___ accept them as they are. That's another strategy that sometimes works. But sometimes this can lead to bitterness and____35___ if your needs aren't being____36___ .
There is，however，a third option（选择）．You can change yourself in a（n）___37___ that solves the problem. This____38___ that you reconsider the problem as an internal one instead of a(n) ___39___ one. This means that you need to___40 ___ your awareness and make a change in your beliefs.
A. anger
B. just
c. especially
D. met
E. common
F. entire
G. created
H. requires
I. expand
J. external
K. way
L. spread

31.F
32.E
33.C
34.B
35.A
36.D
37.K
38.H
39.J
40.I